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Thursday, January 24, 2008

Changing of something and anything is a part of our daily life. It is the only thing which is constant. Something that we cannot avoid.

Everything around us change… People change… The world changes everyday, every hour, and every minute.

We say that changing isn’t bad specially if it is for the better. But some people are just so afraid of changes. Too afraid that when everything and everyone changed they may not to be able to fit in. They may feel left out and uncomfortable bacause they already get used of the old things that already changed.

And sometimes comfortability is the reason why we are afraid to try something new, something different, something that might change us to be better, or maybe being better  is what makes us scared, because we get accustomed of just being average because maybe being better might not to do good to us. But then again how are we gonna know it if we won’t gonna try, if we won’t gonna take the consequence, and then maybe we could realize that the change that made us better is the start of seeing  those things that we have been dreaming for ourselves. And if you doesn’t like the changes that happened then there is always a way to solve it, you can always  change it back. At least you tried to change it.

I love the idea of changing, I love seeing things change from something into something else. I love the fact that the ugly worm could change into a colorful butterfly, the fact that the night change into day, the fact that every human being faces different changes everyday.

I am a person who loves changes because for me change  is a chance to see something new and different. Chance to see things in a different level, in a different perspective. And I would never know which is better if I wouldn’t see things change. I wouldn’t know the difference of the before and after if I just ensconce with the way things are and not gonna change anything.

I admit that I am a person who loves seeing changes in myself. I always change the way I look. I’ve been constantly changing my hair styles since I was in highschool. I always had been changing the way I dress and my choices of clothes. I have enjoyed each transformation. It’s always fun changing the way things are and make it something different. And so I changed the look of my blog, to give it a new appearance, to give it a different level of style.

 

Welcome everyone to my newly renovated blog! :D

 

 

 


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Previous Comments

Pagbabago! Sana nga minsan mangyari sa akin yung pagbabago na will result to malaking pagbabago sa buhay ko! Yung malakihan talaga… yung parang bagong buhay.. new life… ne beginning.. para makalimutan at matalikuran ang mga bagay na tinatawag nilang “Andyan na yan eh!”

may nabasa ako minsan hindi ko sure kung tama ito.. ang sabi “You can’t just simply leave your life.. and start a new one” parang sinabi nya na din na “andyan na yan eh!

Hehehe

Posted by Kaldong at January 24, 2008, 2:49 pm

i guess i’m one of those people who are kinda uncomfortable with change. change has some kind of a shock effect on me. but i get used to it in time.

two thumbs up to you for a very positive outlook about change.

thanks for visiting my blog. care to exchange links?

Posted by grace at January 24, 2008, 5:51 pm

@kaldong-lahat ng malaking pagbabago naguumpisa sa maliit na pagbabago. Try to take a first little step towards change then eventually maaabot mo din yung malaking pagbabago na gusto mo.

yung mga bagay na tinatawag nating ‘andyan na yan’ mga lesson yun ng buhay natin na dapat tandaan at dapat isipin natin yung mga bagay na natutunan sa mga bagay na ‘andyan na yan’. dahil kung hindi natin gusto yung mga bagay na yun makakagawa pa rin tayo ng paraan para baguhin ang mga yun. pano? baguhin ang pamamaraan sa pagharap sa mga bagay bagay para hindi na uli maranasan ang mga bagay na ayaw nating maulit uli at sasabihan natin ng ‘andyan na yan e!’

whew! ang haba ng sagot ko a. sana pinost ko na lang as entry. hehe. ;)

Posted by ihidemyself at January 25, 2008, 1:50 am

@grace- for me kasi change is something that we have to face and deal with. kasi everyting around us evolves and change within time.

thanks so much for the comment and the two thumbs up. it made me smile. :D

Posted by ihidemyself at January 25, 2008, 1:53 am

yes, i agree. life is a never ending tale of changes. change is good, so we have to embrace it :)

Posted by madwoman at February 1, 2008, 9:36 pm

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